If you’re here it’s probably because you’re in a situation I use to be in for all of my teen years and most of my adult life. It’s a situation no man wants to be in—the inability to meet and attract women. If you’re like I use to be, then not being able to attract women is becoming a huge problem in your life.
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The confidence issue has other issues attached to it… Majority of women are attracted to men that other women are attracted to. So, confidence has a compounded effect. A high percentage of women desire only one man, and it’s usually the man other women are attracted to—the man with the most options. In other words, the more attractive you are to a woman, the more attractive you are to other women. Not being able to attract women into your life is a vicious circle. The number one trait women say they find attractive in a man is his confidence. When a man can’t attract women he puts his confidence on the line, and a man with low self-esteem looks extremely unattractive in the eyes of a woman.
Men that have many women attracted to them are in what relationship experts call an “abundance state of mind”. More options means more confidence and a non-desperate/non-clingy disposition. Challenging men are confident and are not desperate. Can you see the pattern? All these qualities go hand-in-hand. A man then logically thinks: “Why should I be with you instead of this other woman?” This mentality drives women crazy! Everyone loves the things they can’t have!
Men in a “scarcity state of mind” get into this position because women don’t find them attractive. A “scarcity state of mind” makes men desperate and willing to do anything to make a woman happy. But desperate men are rarely found attractive by confident women. A man that is desperate is nothing more than a pushover in the eyes of women, and more importantly, he offers no challenge! She can just have her way with him.
The 1973 song called “Some Guys Have All The Luck”, written by the Persuaders, has a logical explanation. It’s the simple law of female attraction to males. Men with an abundant supply of women are more attractive to a woman. This is why, as far as the Persuader’s are concerned, some guys have all the luck and some guys have all the pain.
The good news is that men can learn the skills necessary to become more attractive to women. I know because women use to find me unattractive. Ever since I was a teen I’ve made it my personal mission. I’ve been a loser with women most of my life. When I was younger I was in amazing shape, polite, friendly, and shy, had good hygiene and morals, believed in love, commitment, loyalty and relationships. Quite simply, I was Mr. Nice Guy. Trust me when I say from experience that women are not into nice guys. From the time I could remember, the assholes always got the women they desired.
This simple fact glaring me in the face made me angry because my relationships with women were never the way I had envisioned them to be. I never got the women I truly desired. I never even kissed a girl until I was 17!
My real adventures with women began when I started getting into online dating. It was around 2005. When I started online dating I sucked. I had no idea how to get women interested in my profile. I’d never even hear back from women I messaged. There came a point when I decided it was obviously the profile I had written that didn’t interest women. After all, I know I’m interesting. So I sat down and put some time into a new profile. When I was done I created a masterpiece that would change my relationships with women forever. More women started to apply to my profile than I could handle. I had to put together a spreadsheet to keep track of all the girl’s names and numbers I was getting. This experience really helped me get more comfortable with women simply because I was going on so many dates. All this dating was getting me very comfortable and more “lucky” with woman much more easily.
But my major life changes with women didn’t start until a few years later. Before I saw the light, my relationships where always with women I wasn’t really attracted to. Finally, when I was 36, I came to the conclusion that there had to be a logical explanation of why some guys were getting so “lucky” with women.
I just moved into my new apartment downtown and I was single. One night my buddy Brandon calls me up. He’s only about 5’7”, looks like a muscle mag guy, and has the characteristics of a pit bull. He smokes like a sailor and is always short of breath because he has respiratory problems. He can be quite rude and rarely treats women with respect. He then tells me he picked up 16 women this month in bars and has had sex with them all the same night he met them. What I found even more perplexing was the things he said to these girls to get them back to his place and into bed with him after the bar closed. It was stupid shit, and I couldn’t even believe women gave him the time of day. He told this one girl a joke he heard in a movie to pick her up. “What has two thumbs and likes blow jobs?” As he points to himself with his two thumbs, “This guy right here!”
Then he tells me it doesn’t even matter what you say. The only thing that was important was that you made the girl laugh and gave them some excuse to come back to your place. I said he should write a book and call it “101 Ways To Get A Woman To Come Home With You On the First Date!” He told me other people had told him to write a book too. But don’t hold your breath…
My favorite pickup line he used was when he told a girl he took care of abandoned puppies. The girl of course was putty in his hand and she wanted to go back to his place to see them. They went back to his places and of course there were no puppies, but it didn’t matter. He had her clothes off and bent over faster than she could say blow job.
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These ridiculous stories got me thinking about women and how their mind’s work. How do some guys get women out of their panties so fast and effortlessly? And why are there successful, good looking guys getting no sex from women at all? What are these guys doing? My buddy doesn’t fit the most eligible bachelor profile. However, Brandon did have one character trait I knew even the most intelligent women couldn’t resist… He’s a bad boy. Why do women love bad asses?
My Google search started with “pickup lines”. I started coming across information products created to teach men how to meet and pickup women. So, I bought one. My first product purchase was ok, but there was a lot left unexplained on the psychology behind it. He was just doing it because he knew it worked. I tested out his techniques and some worked and some didn’t. I knew I still didn’t have the whole picture. Still, I was getting more confident simply because I had a few guidelines to keep me on track.
One day I get an email from this guy about a professional dating coach he knows. This guy started talking about stuff that really made sense to me. No brainer stuff that’s easy to do but gets amazing results with women.
I just applied a few of this guys techniques and my sex life with women went to another level. It started becoming easier to make women attracted to me. Did you follow that? I was starting to MAKE women more attracted to me. And I had only applied a few strategies I learned from this guy!
I was finally in, what he called, the “abundance state of mind” mentality. My whole attitude and mind set towards women started to change. But more importantly, what I believed changed, and this changed everything. These days I have several women in my life at a time. I’d rather not get into the details, but let’s just say I never would have thought it was possible to be doing what I’m doing today in my relationships with women.
Turn your current situation around with women. You don’t have to be rich. You don’t need an amazing physique. You don’t need to be the best looking guy in the world. You don’t even need a job or a career. I know because I’m currently unemployed, have no money, drive a mini-van that’s in desperate need of repair, and I still have many beautiful women in my life.
My material affairs have little to do with my success with women. Brandon isn’t doing much better than me in the job and money department. We’re both getting close to our 40’s and we’re still not established and have little money. That’s the power of confidence and behaving like an alpha-male instead of a wuss. Women are craving alpha type men in today’s society. The woman’s rights movement that has been going on for the last few decades has royally screwed the dynamics between men and women, but that’s another story all together.
Women find men that constantly talk about all their “stuff” and success boring. A woman’s imagination is the most erotic part of her being. If you want to impress her, get her imagination going. That’s what my buddy Brandon did with his ridiculous stories and jokes. He found the secret trigger that most men don’t even know women have. Women want men to seduce them into getting them to do what you want. And the only way to seduce a woman is through her imagination.
After studying this new world of the woman’s psyche my dating experiences starting becoming sexual experiences more often. A few months ago I took this 27 year old cutie I met online out on a date. I only applied a few body language techniques and one other strategy that makes a woman feel like she has been on multiple dates with you, when really she just met you an hour ago. Before I know it I’m at her place in bed with her. As she’s taking off her panties with a guilty look in her eyes she says “You know… You really shouldn’t have sex on the first date.” Then her panties land on the floor!
I loved that moment because I knew then that I was becoming good at seducing women out of their panties very quickly. Some people may find it sad that a moment like that meant so much to me. That moment just wasn’t about seducing a young woman out of her panties. It showed me that if I put my mind to it that I could get what I want. By the way, women also find a men that get what they want more attractive.
For most of my life women were never attracted to me. When I was a young teen there was this girl I always wanted, but she only saw me as a friend. Several years passed by and she found me on an online dating website. She invited me over to her place for a drink but she still just wasn’t into me.
Several years later she discovers that I’m friends with a female acquaintance of hers that just so happens to like me. And we already know women just can’t help but be interested in a guy other women are interested in.
By the time this girl had finally some interest in me I had been immersed in all kinds of women seduction guides. Our next get together went exactly how I wanted it to go for over the last 20 years! Understanding a woman’s mind can get you out of the friend zone with her. Even if you’ve known her for years and she’s never been interested in you before.
So do you still think some guys get all the luck? The truth is, luck has nothing to do with it. There’s a reason why women are attracted to certain men. Once you understand this your relationships with women will catapult to the next level.
Getting my relationships with women under control has helped me eliminate the personal internal problems I use to deal with. I’m happier, more confident, and it has even improved my relationships with friends and family. Your current situation with women is only going to change if you do something about it. So do something about it today! Women will love you for it!
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